After reading two very good emails, one from my Mom and the other from my Aunt I realized I have to be patient, with my self and my situation. I was given very good advise from both advising that kids don't come with instructions and what is best for the child is the most important. It is hard being a single parent and sometimes I feel short changed. They advised me when it comes to Quinn to make sure she has a great childhood. She is growing up in two homes which will have its challenges.
I was told to try to sit down with my Ex and set the same rules, which would be good in a normal situation but she won't and I have different rules. She bribes and I pretty must say game over. They both gave many great ideas and thoughts that I do have to just think about but I was upset over the Hoe Down because you can't volunteer on someone else's time, that's all. Not to make this a complaining session so I will wrap it up and thank them both. They told me always have faith and remember Quinn will always love her Dad...
With that I have to say yesterday was great, she got in the car and we were off with no problems. We had a great dinner and just relaxed a little. We did some reading then off to bed. The next morning Quinn got ready for school and had some breakfast, she got dressed and was very good. I think we have the cloths down at least for now. When it comes to cloths, well kids can be picky and it might be difficult. I know its just a phase but I am trying to show her she needs more options than yoga pants! (she doesn't wear them but close) So as the weekend comes I am just as curious as you!
I will let you all know, that's for sure!
Always Remember,
You are never alone...
Love,
Christopher
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